The Single Best #FlirtTip I Can Give You

If I had to pick one #FlirtTip that I think is more important than all the others, it would have to be “Have Guts”.

Have you ever noticed that the most successful flirts are not the most beautiful or handsome. They are not the wittiest or the most articulate.  They are simply the people with the most guts.

For some people, showing guts is easy.  They are just naturally outgoing and seemingly immune to rejection.  They are lucky.  Most people, myself included, have to reach deep in themselves to find what it takes to risk a failed flirt.

Later posts will be about dealing with the dreaded R word (rejection).  Until then, remember that courage is like a muscle.  The more you use it, the stronger it gets.

Unfortunately, the excuse-making part of your brain also gets stronger and better when you use it.

I like to think Shakespeare was thinking about flirting when he coined my favorite quote:

“Our doubts are traitors and make us lose
the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt.”

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About AFlirt Yourself

A blog to encourage, tutor and motivate readers in the fun and healthy art of flirting in the real world. If you enjoy this blog, you would probably also enjoy following the @AFlirtYourself Twitter account.

Posted on 2011-Dec-19, in Flirting how-to.. Bookmark the permalink. 1 Comment.

  1. “Have guts”

    Will do.

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